The things everyone asks.

Three dimensions of compatibility we score every match on: Brains (how you'll talk — communication style, love language, conflict), Brand (what you stand for — values, ambition, life purpose), and Body (how you live — lifestyle, energy, location). Your one daily match is scored on all three, and the card shows you exactly how it lands on each.

Four specialist agents read your profile and every candidate's. Compatibility looks at 3Bs, lifestyle, and logistics. Values reads your green flags, dealbreakers, and beliefs. Conversation imagines how the first chat would actually go. Safety screens for the patterns that don't add up. The strongest fit rises to the top and shows up at your drop hour, with a short note from Coach on why.

Two clear options — Pass or Connect — keep the rhythm calm and the bar honest. One considered match makes the moment intentional instead of a slot machine. When you and your match both Connect, a chat opens. One conversation at a time, until it resolves.

Pass, and your next match arrives at your hour tomorrow. (Your first few passes are free; after that there's a short wait before the next one, to keep the bar honest.) You can also tighten your discovery preferences — age, distance, lifestyle, the long-distance toggle — anytime in Settings.

It's a literal button. After your first IRL meetup, a "We're official" entry appears in the chat menu. When both of you tap it, matchmaking pauses for both — your daily drops stop, the chat becomes the heart of the relationship, and the app gets out of your way. Either of you can also undo it — both sides re-enter the matching pool, no shame, no data lost.

Yes. The distance slider goes up to 160 km (100 mi) for nearby matching, or you can flip on the "open to long-distance" toggle to match across cities. When it's time to pick a venue, the app asks whose city you're meeting in — so the recommendations actually make sense.

Datestiny is built for opposite-sex matching between Woman and Man profiles.

Free to install, set up, and get your daily match — including Connect and chat. Datestiny Pro unlocks Coach's full insights: the "Coach's take" on each match and the detailed 3Bs breakdown. Pro is $9.99 billed weekly, or $99.99 billed annually with a 7-day free trial, billed securely through Stripe inside the app. Cancel anytime in Settings.

A dedicated Safety agent reads every candidate's profile before it reaches you, and block and report are one tap away inside any chat. Your data lives on Firebase with strict security rules, isn't sold, and isn't used to train any general-purpose AI — and you can delete your account, profile, photos, matches and all, anytime from Settings. One thing we won't pretend about: photo verification isn't live yet, so treat profile photos as unverified and video-call before you meet. The full, honest picture is on our safety page.

Datestiny lives on the web — no App Store, no download. Open it in any browser, on your phone or laptop, and add it to your home screen like a native app. Your first match lands the next day.